Over on his blog, Tom said (in discussing a Blog@ thread I was involved in):
All that being said, when I dipped into the seething anger in the comments thread of this post over what are at least to me bizarre and ridiculous "issues" like the Susan Storm Skrull, a light went off in my head. The desire to create a community in something as inappropriate in a comic book store (or to judge such a place on the expectations of community) and the desire to create one on-line where the shared values and relevant items of discourse depend on superhero comic book ephemera -- these desires have to be related, and neither one is likely to be healthy for anyone involved, be they outraged, hurt, disappointed or legitimized by the outcome. Okay, I don't get an honorary PhD from Bowling Green's pop-culture department for that one, but I personally never thought of it that way before. It has to be possible to read, buy and talk about comics without investing every human transaction of that type with the drama and import of one's core self-worth. If nothing else, it bleeds attention away from things like systemic reform and advocacy according to higher, more ethical standards by cuffing almost every issue about the head and shoulders until it turns into one more referendum on "what happened to me."
Besides mentioning a topic that wasn't even really involved in the discussion he linked to (the heavily referenced blog topic was when Val went off on an ill-advised tangent on black characters in the DCU), I think I understand where he's coming from...even if I don't necessarily agree.
I have a feeling that he might count some of my posts as having "seething anger" (even if I don't see it), let's subtract myself as a topic from the thread. When we do that, we get a discussion about whether moderation is good or not. We get one of the sources of the cited change to moderation being trying to avoid admitting a mistake by shifting the topic to a specious argument of racism.
That's like trying to avoid being stabbed in a knife fight by changing the weapon of choice to hand grenades. If you're going to introduce such a volatiles subject, you need to be ready to give it its due consideration...or else it will blow up in your face.
So...we get someone discussing topics that tend to reach outside of comics even when being discussed within (black tokens and other racial issues), but the idea is that you should walk away without discussing it at all? That you should never try to engage someone you disagree with in a conversation? I don't really get it.
It seems to be an isolationist position. Keep walking through your day without giving a second thought to anyone holding an opinion that might even be offensive to you (in fairness, Tom mentioned the Sue Storm Skrull thing, I know...but that had little-to-nothing to do with the discussion he cited as the inspiration for his comments).
What I get even less is Valerie D'Orazio linking to it as if it is the point she's been trying to get across to folks. She's MAYBE once tried to pull a "agree to disagree", but even in that thread she surrounds it with such snark that you couldn't possibly give her the benefit of a doubt that she was trying to withdraw when she felt she was at her breaking point. You want to talk "seething anger"? I think these are textbook examples. It wasn't earned or deserved by the person she fired it off at.
But maybe it is a position she's recently adopted after the calm that must have come from moderated her comments. I mean that sincerely. At this point, people who disagreed with her aren't likely to still be fighting to get their comments in...at least not if they are aware of everything that came before moderation. I think I'm even seeing comments that she probably doesn't love. Maybe she's purged the people that she'd never be able to address seriously, at this point, and will slowly build back to having people that disagree with her that she doesn't have a pre-existing history with. Maybe she'll be in a better place when the next Pedro, David, Matt, or Chris try to have a discussion with her and she won't immediately dismiss them as internet trolls.


Honestly, the less time I spend around general comic book-related forums, the more I enjoy comic book reading. Its great to share enthusiasm with some people, but disagreements over taste spiral into personal arguments very quickly and more often than not.
ReplyDeleteThe overwhelming majority of comic book arguments seem to be unhealthy.
Honestly, I think that's true of just about any discussion that happens on internet forums.
ReplyDeleteWalk into a discussion about political candidates.
Walk into a discussion about race.
Walk into a discussion of evolution versus intelligent design.
Wander over to a comment thread about a movie, actor, or director on IMDB.
Any topic can wind up being a colossal waste of time...but I don't think that means you give up on trying to create a place for that discussion. You just have to recognize the limitations and pitfalls.
There are definitely forums that have great atmospheres. But they generally have a smaller membership.
ReplyDeleteI suppose its more of a hopeless wish to find something to enjoy and talk about where that kind of activity doesn't happen. But thats just not the way people are or relate to each other.
I think what were really talking about is how people discuss things with little-to-no filter and a heavy heaping of anonymity.
ReplyDeleteWhere people would walk away from each other in frustration in person, they degrade into spitting fire and venom at each other online.
For whatever shortcomings it might have, I think the Bendis Boards help themselves greatly by making it a little more difficult to sign up there (certain e-mail addresses aren't accepted). Same goes for the Byrne boards, even if the whole purpose gets a bit twisted there.
Yeah. I have a "handle" I'm using here. Though I actually tried to change it before making my first post on your blog.
ReplyDeleteI do know some german, but not enough to figure out this whole google blogging profile business.
For the record my name is Andrew.
Civility is what is missing. But I notice when a number of posters can't really come up with a response to a line of argument - they start going for personal attacks. I agree they would not be doing this if people took the time to figure out their names and home addresses.
Heh...I wasn't trying to call you on any anonymity. I'm just saying it emboldens people who are prone to turning off their filters when they are online. It works both ways for them, though.
ReplyDelete1. They fear no repercussion because their fanb0y193792.
2. They don't see the target of their wrath as a human being, because they are just fanperson19578.
:)
ReplyDeleteI didn't feel called out. It just felt strange for me to continue making comments without saying something about my own handle.
Good.
ReplyDeleteBy the way...thanks for posting again...you made me notice my their/they're mistake...dammit...